Change...

Why would anyone stay in a relationship that creates unhappiness through abuse, put-downs, and violence? Aren't relationships suppose create happiness between one another? One might say there in the relationship because they want to change that abusive person's way of life, but when trying to change that person, don't let their actions and words cause yourself to change in ways you shouldn't be changed, because your the one that's suppose to change them. Never let the changing change the changer. Just know what your risking when you wanna change that person.

Someone once told me, "You can never change anyone, but you can influence them to do something new." Something new? Well is in it doing something new a change because the old is not being done anymore? I still believe anyone can change anyone. It's the influence that causes a person's change. Although we can change a person's way of looking at things, these changes can never be permanent because one can be influence to change back to their original way of doing what was changed.

Go ahead try and change that certain someone the way you want them to change. Just remember that your risking yourself when trying to go through this changing process.