Change...

Why would anyone stay in a relationship that creates unhappiness through abuse, put-downs, and violence? Aren't relationships suppose create happiness between one another? One might say there in the relationship because they want to change that abusive person's way of life, but when trying to change that person, don't let their actions and words cause yourself to change in ways you shouldn't be changed, because your the one that's suppose to change them. Never let the changing change the changer. Just know what your risking when you wanna change that person.

Someone once told me, "You can never change anyone, but you can influence them to do something new." Something new? Well is in it doing something new a change because the old is not being done anymore? I still believe anyone can change anyone. It's the influence that causes a person's change. Although we can change a person's way of looking at things, these changes can never be permanent because one can be influence to change back to their original way of doing what was changed.

Go ahead try and change that certain someone the way you want them to change. Just remember that your risking yourself when trying to go through this changing process.

Questions, Comments, Concerns.....

• Why is that we always give people positive advice when we're always negative to ourselves?

• I figure Society and the Media causes PROCRASTINATION.

• Attraction and Tempation is ugly
  

• I've noticed women with a powerful/beautiful mind fall for men that they know can cause them problems, stress, drama etc.

• Kids are becoming way toooo freaky these days.....

• Love does stink....
  

Beautiful..

Another word underestimated. In my opinion, beautiful is considered one of the mightiest compliments you can ever say to a person. As lovely as the words sounds however, beautiful doesn't cross the lines into the area of love. I'd say beautiful is at the border of this situation, but it doesn't pass the gates. Just because someone calls you beautiful, it doesn't attraction to you at all. It may lead to attraction, but doesn't hit that bar yet. Attraction starts when you notice a special something you admire towards the one person and it just can't be beauty. It may be the way they do something or how you see them. Never create an attraction to someone because of their looks because looks can be deceiving.

I call alot of women cute, then there's a handful of those women who are beautiful, but as for attraction I've never reached that level yet because i've never recognized a woman who has that special something.

Lily's Ring

Hypocrite...

How can one accuse the other of being a hypocrite when your a hypocrite yourself? When someone is called a hypocrite, the whole point of them calling you that is just putting you down for a statement you said earlier but then later contradict. If we all are hypocrites then why is it we point fingers to other people who we see contradict to statements or things they've said before?

What should we do? If we see one more person point a finger to a contradiction, might as well cut their finger off because it's pointless.